Saturday, November 29, 2008

November 29th, 2008 pm

It is 10:50pm. I know it's late, but I just got home from going out to dinner with my sister Beth, niece Rachel, and Kayla, Katie, and Molly. We had a really nice time. Mary had another good day. She really didn't do a tremendous amount of rehab today, but what she did was very good. When I arrived this morning, she was already walking with one of her therapists. After talking to Mary later, I found out the the therapist asked her "what do you want to work on the most this morning?" Mary answered "whatever you think is going to get me home the quickest". When the speech therapist intercepted us going down the hall heading back to Mary's room, she asked if Mary wanted to move up her therapy time with her to now. Mary said "sure". When we got done with Mary's speech therapy, she also got some "homework". We arrived back in Mary's room, and normally she would say I'm ready to lay down now. This time she said "Let's do my homework". All of these things really shows me that Mary is ready to take on this challenge, and she is doing it head on. Just in the last few days she has really realized that this is the way to get home to her family. She still gets tired, she still gets annoyed with me, but I am so happy to see the drive starting to come out in her. We all know how strong and independent she is, and I was so hoping that it would come out in her rehab. I think it finally is. Maybe not 100% yet, but she is definitely turning it up a notch or two. We had quite a few friends visiting today, and I know there will be some tomorrow. Mary enjoys seeing her family and friends, and I really feel that it picks her up. Granted, she is worn out when everyone leaves, but the positive stimulation is good for her. She still has not seen any of your wonderful, caring comments yet on this blog, but she knows about them. She is looking forward to reading them all. I am looking forward to her doing just that. Thanks to all.

5 comments:

Burt/Jill Shackleton said...

Once again you touch me by your obvious love for Mary. Thank you so much for taking the time to update all of us who love her. We are blessed so much by our truly wonderful family. I am proud of all of you. Alex, you did a great job on your blog, it is touching to read your honest emotions.
Love,
Cousin Jill

Sherrim said...

Go Mary,

Keep striving for that goal. I know it seems like a long time. But you doing better each day. With determination and love from you husband and kids. You be home for you know it. I reading Scotts blog everyday. If you dont remember me I worked with Scott at Bonkers. Keep up the good work.

Sherri Mueller

cousin anne said...

Once again, like Jill, you touch me by your obvious love for Mary. Thank you so much for taking the time to update all of us who love her. We are blessed so much by our truly wonderful family. I am proud of all of you. Alex, like Jill said, you did a great job on your blog, it is touching to read your honest emotions.

Love,
Cousin Anne
P.S. Did you like what Jill wrote? I guess us sisters think alike:)

Sue said...

More and More wonderful news on how Mary is reaching for higher ground and seems to really be getting there each day. Hang in there Scott you are doing wonderful yourself as Mary's coach and reading up on the plan books on strokes as well. I am not much of a reader as well. You are doing GREAT !....My prayers and thoughts are with you both each day. Co Worker & Friend Sue Kelle <>< <>< <>< <><

carrib said...

It's wonderful to hear about the great progress Mary is making.We keep up with the blog everyday.You are all in our prayers everyday.I'll be in St. Louis this weekend and I'm hoping to stop by.I'll call first.Hugs to you all!
Love,
Dave,Carri and family