Sunday, November 30, 2008

November 30, 2008 pm

It is 8:47 pm. Today Mary had quite a few friends come and visit her. Mary K., Sara, Carrie, the McCleans, and the Brinkmans. Mary and I enjoyed seeing everyone. Mary's girlfriends actually brought her in some Olive Garden food for lunch. Believe me, she thoroughly enjoyed that. It is so wonderful that Mary has such wonderful caring friends, and it means a lot to me that they make the long trip just to see how she's doing so many times. Mary didn't have any therapy today at all. We did try to make sure that she did some exercises in her bed, mainly with her grip strength, and also bending and flexing her left arm and leg. She still seems to be getting a little more strength in the left side each day. I have a feeling that she will work real hard tomorrow. I have made the decision to come back home for a few days this week, starting tomorrow. After talking to some of the therapists, they think it might be good for Mary to do some of the therapy without me being with her. I have seen a couple of times that Mary would stop in the middle of whatever they had her doing just to ask me a question. She may not even have seen me, (because I was standing on her left side), but she new I was there. I do not in any way want to be a distraction to Mary while she is rehabbing her mind and body. So, as hard as it may be to leave for a little while, I think it will be very interesting to see what happens while I'm gone. Mary is really starting to embrace the working hard to get home thing, and I hope she continues in that mindset. I think she will. Obviously, it is going to be hard for me to report what happens for a few days. I am going to be talking to Mary on her phone to see how she is doing, and hopefully I can get adequate information from her to give you all a report. I will keep in touch. Please keep praying for Mary, as I think this may a pivotal week in her recovery. Thanks.

4 comments:

Sue said...

I pray for your safe trip home Scott for a few days. Mary will have great strenth I know to work hard while you are not there and will prove to do really well with the good therapists there to help her along her path to recovery. Try not to worry while you are gone. Lots of extra prayers going Mary's way and yours too. Sue Kelle <>< <>< <>< <><

Peggy Homan said...

Scott
I think it will do both of you a world of good if you come home for a few days. As much as you want to be there I agree that Mary will work that much harder if you aren't there. You too need some time away to do some normal activity in your life such as work etc.. Mary has so much determination you will see a huge improvement when you do go back in a few days. We were gone out of town for 4 days and I was so excited to see how much Mary had progressed while I was gone. I couldn't wait to get on the computer to read all about her. I'll send extra prayers for you Scott to have the patience to be away from Mary and for Mary to work extra hard as I know she can and will. Take care.
PS Thanks to you and the kids for keeping us all up to date.
Peggy Homan

Sarah said...

Scott...Glad to hear that you are home for a few days...Hoping to come see Mary again soon. So glad to hear that she's been gaining a bit each day and that she is becoming more determined! She's so lucky to have such a loving family and so many awesome friends!!!
Love ya
Your sis...Sarah

Gail Ham said...

Good for you Scott to take some time away and give Mary the space to really focus on her therapy, I think she will be more determined to work hard to succeed in her quest to come home. I know alot of people are still asking how she is doing and still praying for her recovery. I will be so excited for her when she gets to step foot into her home again, I know that she wants that really badly.
I am wishing that she gets that for Christmas.
My prayers continue for her, It has been very uplifting to see her progress everytime I have visited her, I can't wait to see her again!
Take care, I hope you get some well deserved rest.
As stated in a previous blog... you are awesome for the marriage vows "for better or for worse"
you didn't need that test, but
I know God gives you an A+

Love,
Cousin Gail