Wednesday, November 26, 2008

November 26th, 2008 pm

Hello all, it is Scott again. It's 8:39 pm. First of all I want to thank my son Alex for his blog last night. I too was touched by his words to his Mom. It made me realize just how proud we are of our kids. I always new they we great kids, but when a event like this happens to a family, the best of everyone just shines through. Your Mom and I love you both very much. Mary had another pretty decent day today. She had about 3 hours of total rehab today ending at about 2:30 pm. She didn't walk with her therapist as much today, but she did do some other things that worked her pretty hard. She went up and down a few steps today, and really did pretty well. Her left leg started hurting her though, so she had to quit. I obviously am not a doctor, but I think her left leg hurting, is good. I would think that her having the feeling going up to her brain saying Hey, something down there is working and hurting, is a good thing. But, that's just me thinking. She also did quite bit of time on the hand bike, (this is kind of like pedaling a bike with your hands), and I thought she did well. They have to strap her left hand on the pedal with and elastic bandage to hold it on. But, when they had her try to pedal with just her left arm, she was actually able to go about 3 or 4 revolutions without help. She had to work her but off to do it though. The therapist thought that was really good and so did I. Mary has been insisting on talking to the doctor about a day pass to go home for Thanksgiving tomorrow. She got to talk to him today, and to no surprise, she was denied the pass. He told her she just wasn't strong enough yet to make such a long trip home. Needless to say, she was very disappointed. Although alot of out family is coming to the facility for a Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow, she wants to be home. The doctor guesses she will be here about 2 more weeks. That's just a guess though. She will be evaluated on her progress after this week. Today has been one full week since Mary has been here. Even I can see the progress that she has made in that time. It's hard to say where she will be in 2 more weeks. If she keeps working hard, and I hope she will, I really feel that her strength and stamina will increase dramatically. There is nothing I want more than for Mary to function as close to normal as possible when she gets home. She is definitely headed in the right direction. I hope that all of you that are reading this have a wonderful Thanksgiving day tomorrow. I am truly thankful that we have such great group of friends that are so caring and loving to our family. Thank you all. You have made this ordeal much easier. But obviously, most of my thanks this year is that we will celebrate the day with our whole family. It doesn't matter where we are celebrating, what matters is that we have our Mary with us. It will be a happy Thanksgiving. You have one too. Thanks.

7 comments:

cousin anne said...

I'm the 1st to leave a blog after you wrote Scott! I feel honored! Shawn & I are having 8 guests tomorrow for Thanksgiving-13 total. I get my dad! I feel so lucky he will be at his "favorite" daughters house:) Shawn's parents, uncle, & grandparents will be here! I don't know how many more holidays we'll have with his grandparents, I've been SO blessed to be married into a wonderful family!
We'll be more thankful this Thanksgiving because of Mary, I know we all have a lot to be thankful for!
Have a GREAT day! Give my cousin hugs from me:)

Cousin Lynn said...

Cousin Lynn here! While I haven't written, I just want you to know that I've been keeping the whole family in my daily thoughts and prayers, and getting progress reports from the rest of the family. Have a Happy Thanksgiving, and I'm looking forward to hearing continued success! Please tell Mary I love her!

Jami Polley said...

Keep fighting Mary! Everyday I am praying for you! Not a day goes by. I remember the rehab, my brother did it and it is tough, hang in there. Your body will continue to heal and your brain will grow stronger everyday. I am thankful for your life this Thanksgiving.

Steph4you said...

Happy Thanksgiving Mary, Scott, Alex, and Regan!

Aunt Terry said...

Happy Thanksgiving, more than ever you know to stop and count your blessings today. Our loved ones are precious. Mary keep working, we are all proud of your hard work. I hope you all have a wonderful and blessed day. Terry Anderson

Sherrim said...

Happy Thankgiving to the whole Berryman family. God Bless Mary of this special day.

Penny Little said...

As I sit here on Thanksgiving morning and read your blog (which I do every day) it touches my heart in so many ways. I am so proud of Mary and all the progress she has made. I know Mary will continue to fight and continue to gain strength. Scott, you have done an amazing job staying strong through all of this...your family has inspired me beyond words.

As I celebrate Thanksgiving today and reflect on all my blessings... my family will be saying a special prayer for Mary and your family today. Your family will make this Thanksgiving very special for many families...you have made many realize how blessed we are!

Have a Blessed Thanksgiving.
Penny, Bryan, Lacey & Casey