Monday, November 10, 2008

November 10, 2008 am

It is 8:49 am this on Monday morning. I am late on getting this out today because I was setting with Mary until now. She is pretty much unchanged throughout the night. She has been having some trouble with keeping her oxygen level up to the numbers they want. The nurses have been able to get it back up with puting an oxygen mask on for a little while. She will still say her name when asked, and all the other commands that the doctors ask her to do. She is very sleepy most of the time. I guess that rest and sleep are good for you. They are going to do an ultra sound on her legs today to make sure she has proper blood flow. When you are in bed for a week, your legs might not get the flow that they want. I can't believe we have been here for a week already. This is so hard for all of us to go through. I can't even imagine what my Mary is going through. She tries so hard to let us know what she is feeling. It breaks my heart that she is going through this. I don't know why this happened. I keep asking myself why. Why her. The doctors don't know how much for sure she will be affected by this. Only time will tell. Our kids had to go back to college today. Please pray for them to stay strong, as I know it is going to be hard for them think about anything else but their Mom. We just all love her so much, and want to come out of this and live a normal life. I know things are going to be different. I know Mary will be different in some way. The only thing that I know that will not change is our undying love for her. Please keep praying for her. Please keep thinking of her. She needs all your energy. Thanks.

9 comments:

Trish said...

Scott,
I was talking to one of my best friends last night and we were talking about Mary. She said her husband went through the same thing. She said it was the scariest time of her life. Her husband is absolutely fine, no side effects from any of it. Prayers do get answered, and I'm sure ours will for Mary too!

lespam said...

We are thinking of all of you. The bog is a wonderful tool to keep everyone up to date. Scott-take care of yourself and know that we are thinking of you. You both have many friends who love and support you.
much love
Les and Pam

Nancy said...

Scott,

I'm so glad to know about this website. Julie told me about it this morning. I am keeping you, Mary and your families in my prayers. Take care.

Nancy Schrage

Spunky said...

I've been praying for mary, you, alex, and reagan since my dad told me about this last week. Stay strong, prayers do get answered, and you're not in this alone.
Lauren

Otte. said...

I will continue to have you in my thoughts. Alex told me about this blog last night, I think it's a wonderful idea. Stay strong.

jeanne aschemann said...

Scott, Alex, and Regan -
Our family has and will continue praying for you and Mary many times/day. I also am at BCBS and can't tell you how many times Mary crosses my mind - as she does many people that sit around me. She is such a sweetheart - and we miss her!! The part of Mary's personality I enjoy the most is her sense of humor. Someday she will have stories to tell us when she is home and feeling good again. In the meantime - you are doing an awesome job helping her through - one day - one minute at a time. The prayers are surrounding her - and will continue. If we can ever do anything please please let us know.

virginia angrisano said...

Dear Scott,
you don't know us, but knowing Julie it isn't hard to love your whole family. We will continue to pray for Mary, you and your whole family! You are not alone in your efforts to help Mary recover!

God Bless,
Jenni and Steve Angrisano
Romans 5:3-5 (our favorite verse in times like these)

Sherrim said...

Scott,

We all ask ourselves why does this happen? Why my mother or kids or my wife. God has the answer for everytthing. But we just dont understand it at this time when I was reading this blog that you left why did this happen? I will tell you it makes you stronger to face life unexpecting circumtances, and makes you closer then ever to your family. It makes you wake up each day and thank God you have your wife with you still recovering. It makes you appreciate each day that comes that you have so many friends and love ones out there praying for you.And it also show you that God does answers prayers. In his own time It makes you look at life in such a different way with thanks and praise and she taking steps slowley each day. Just keep strong for Mary and the kids. Me and Dave will be praying for you.
God Bless,

Sherri and Dave Mueller

Steph4you said...

Scott,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let Mary know that I am rooting for her to get well soon and we love and miss her!!

Stephenie