Tuesday, November 18, 2008
November 18th, 2008 am
It is 8:29 am. Once again I apologize for my lateness in getting this out. Yesterday was just a good day all around. Mary did quite a few things that were just wonderful. One of the first things was in the morning. As we were talking about a few things, she was laying on her left side. As she usually does, she raised her right arm up wanting me to help her get up. As I leaned in to let her pull up on my shoulder, this time she just raised herself up to my level, and gave me a soft kiss on the cheek. Needless to say it made my day! She was doing more talking yesterday, most of it making sense. There are still times that she talks a little confused. I asked the doctor about that, and he said that will go on for months. Mary passed all her swallowing tests yesterday, so she had her first meal last night. She didn't eat too much, but it was eating and drinking real food. While she was getting ready to eat, a man tapped me on the shoulder and introduced himself as Father Chuck. He was from Quincy from a few years ago. He was good friends with Julie, so he was in to say hi to Mary. She did remember him, and that was great. After he left Mary asked me if I had my cell phone. This time I obliged and said who do you want to call. She said she wanted to call her Mom or Julie to give them Father Chuck's number or something. I opened my phone for her and asked who do you want to call. She said "I'll do it". I gave her the phone and she started dialing. It took her twice, but she dialed her Mom and Dads house phone. She raised the phone up to her ear and waited. She had her helmet on at the time, so it was a little awkward. In a few seconds she said "Hi Mom". I can only imagine what emotion was felt on the other line. Darlene was taking a phone call from Mary. From my end it was a beautiful thing. Mary and her Mom talked for at least 3 or 4 minutes, and it was a conversation! Mary was talking good to her and focused on the conversation at hand. I couldn't believe it. She ended with a "OK, bye, I love you too." Later I called Dar to ask her what she thought, and she said it completely made her day. She also got her catheter out last night, which was a great thing for Mary. She has hated every minute of that. Really, the only thing that is hooked up to right now is the monitor for heart rate, blood oxygen and reparations. If all details can be worked out, and I feel they can, Mary will be moving into the Rehab center today. Unbelievable. As one of comments said, She is showing us. I have to make some phone calls to see if the move can happen today, so I'd better go. As always, thanks for your thoughts and prayers. Mary will need plenty more of them, as she begins her rehab. It will be a lot of hard work. The doctor thinks she is up for it. So do I. Thanks.
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When I talked to my mom last night she told me about all the good news!! I was so happy for you and Mary!!
I got tears reading about her phone call to her mom!!! I can only imagine what that must have felt like for her mom.
What a blessing God has givin you!! I know He will only continue!!!
Here's to a GREAT DAY!!!!
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Scott, I am so happy to hear all of this wonderful news and progress that Mary is making!!! From her kissing your cheek to calling her Mom....it is touching! You and Mary have such an amazing love story...I have always admired that about you two. Please give her a hug and kiss from me and tell her that I will be back to see her just as soon as I can. God has his arms around you all. I pray you feel that love and comfort. Hang on to him and let him continue to bless your family,
Love Melodie
Kevin shouldn't feel terrible about "Ragen". My nephew,Simon, called her "Dragon" one morning at Grandma Elsie's. It's so wonderful to get good news. Regan's blog was very informative and entertaining.I'm waiting to hear from Alex and especially Mary. If she can call Aunt Dar she will probably be blogging soon.
Love, Cousin Beth
Truly outstanding news! It warms my heart to know that she is improving, and at a good pace!
Congrats about the whole rehab thing too!
Woo!
I am so happy. I can also imagine Aunt Dar answering the phone and hearing Mary at the other end. WONDERFUL!!! It makes me so happy each time I read this wonderful blog and hear how well she is doing. Thank you so much Scott for taking such wonderful care of her. I am proud you are my family.
Love,
Cousin Jill
I am extremely grateful and happy that Mary is making such great strides! How awesome! How could I think any differently, this is Mary we are talking about?? :-)
Please let her know I am thinking of her and give her a hug from me! I hope to come visit soon!!
Thoughts and prayers are with you all,
Stephenie Seeland
Wow Scott,
That great about rehab. They do work you hard in rehab They told my mother before they moved her. They saw the dertermination in her and said Joann your your work cut out for you are your ready? And she did. She worked hard to get out of the bed the way they should. And learn to dress and to form her words better. She should them she could do it. God answers prayers. The lord is with you always.
Sherri Mueller
You're welcome, on the way home I was thinking it might not have been a good choice to put it under that chair after what happened that night before! But I'm glad you it was still there! :-) I would love to meet Mary in the future!! She seems like such a wonderful lady, she sure has a great family and lots of friends loving her and praying for her.
I hope she can get some good food in her soon, I know that hospital food is going to grow old fast!!!
Can't wait to see how the day went!!
Tell your mom and dad I said hello! I just loved talking to your mom, she is so sweet!
Brandy may be coming home tomorrow. Will find out more in the morning. Some of her Neuro testing wasn't too good tonight so we will see. Thank you for the thoughts and prayers.
From the kiss she gave you Scott to the call to her Mom what a joyous day for all of you! Mary is coming right along with God holding her hand and the angels dancing around your family...hang in there Scott brighter days keep coming your way :-)......have a good night....prayers continue....Sue Kelle Co Worker & Friend <>< <>< <>< <><
Scott,
I love reading this blog before I go to bed, it makes me sleep very well and have peaceful dreams.
I am so thrilled that cousin Mary
is making such great progress, it
won't be long for her and I to once again cast blame on Julie for everything that goes wrong. (Mary and my little secret, don't tell Julie :) )
I feel our prayers are being answered, God hears everyone loud and clear that we need our Mary back in full gear. She is proving that daily.
I am very happy that you get to be by her side and witness everything.
I hope the poor son of a gun that stole your laptop is proud of himself because I am sure that God has a plan for him as well :-)
(that was as nice as I could be)
Take care!
Love,
Cousin Gail
p.s I loved Ragan's blog, she's great!
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