Thursday, November 13, 2008

November 13, 2008 am

It is 7:33 am. Mary had a pretty good night of sleep. She seem to get some quality hours in, in between being poked with a needle, breathing treatments, and verbal tests every 2 hours. They have changed Mary's medication for her pain, and it is one that is supposed to make her less drowsy. To me, it seems like it is working. She has been alot more alert the last day or so. More of saying words and alot more restless and moving around. Let me tell you, she still has alot of strength! I notice her head being able to move around more the last couple of days also. She will pick it up off the pillow and maybe turn it slightly, then put it back down. It might not sound like much, but trust me it is. I haven't been in yet this morning to see her, as the staff kind of kicks us out from 6-8 am, mainly for their cleaning and testing. For some reason, I feel like we might have a pretty good day today. Just the way her alertness has been, makes me think, maybe, she is starting to be alert for longer times. We'll see what the day holds. I hope my feelings are right this morning. Very slowly each day, we seem to get a little more of our Mary back. Your comments are wonderful. I can't wait for the day she can read them and see how many people love her and care about her. Please keep praying for Mary. Thanks.

16 comments:

Misty said...

She is doing so well Scott!! I'm so happy to hear she has made such progress. Sitting in that waiting room hearing you say "I just want her to wake up" broke my heart, but now she is well on her way to being herself again.

How are the kids doing being away from you both??

You are all in my thoughts and prayers!

Dusty said...

It's great to read your updates everyday and to hear that Mary is making such progress. The strength the two of you have amazes me. Thank you so much for keeping all of us so informed of Mary's recovery. I'll keep praying and thinking good thoughts for you both and your entire family.

Davis said...

Scott, Mary and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all each day. Mary Kinscherf gave me the blog info this week, what a great way to share with family and friends. Your words are so inspiring to us all, thank you. Mary's progress has been amazing, each day she get's better. Our prayers are being answered. If there's anything we can so, please let us know.
Take care and God Bless,
Mark, Pam, Shannon & Michael Davis

MD said...

My heart goes out to you Scott. I know you are going through a difficult time, but know that the good lord has plans for you and Mary.
Keep the faith that Mary will recover fully and know that your love and devotion to each other will conquer all that is thrown your way. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers daily. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask. Take care and God Bless you both.

Laura said...

Mary,
Keep up the good work. I am praying & thinking of you everyday. Scott your beautiful love for Mary is so eloquently spoken in your daily entries. Thank you for your updates on Mary's progress. Mary I have prayed to our Blessed Mother & asked her to keep her arms tightly wrapped around you, Scott, Regan & Alex for continued strength & patience. God Bless all of you
Love,
Jeff & Laura

Gina said...

Just got this info from Faye and Sandy. Thank you for keeping this log -- hopefully it helps you process everything, too. Sounds like your wonderful, strong family is helping Mary heal. We will continue to keep you in our prayers and hope for a swift recovery.
Love and prayers,
Gina (cousin)

Lindsay said...

Berryman Family--
my heart was hurt when I heard what happened to Merry. I had just seen her a week pryor...it just tells us how quick life can change. Your love for her, Scott radiates..very inspiring. Keep the faith, stay strong. My prayer is for a speedy recovery, and for a special strength to get through the next couple of months.
Schaffer Family

Connie said...

Scott, I am so glad to hear of all of the progresses over the last week. It makes me feel wonderful to know that there is another couple out there that love each other like Craig and I do. What a great testimony you have been to other couples who may be arguing about silly stupid things or holding grudges towards their spouse. I am looking forward to Thanksgiving so Craig and I can drive over to see you both and give you a big hug. Lots of Love, Connie

carrib said...

Scott,Mary and family,
Beth and Rita have been keeping us posted daily and now we have the blog.What a wonderful way to keep in touch.Thank you for sharing with us.You all are in our thoughts and prayers everyday.It is encouraging to hear Mary's progress.We know God hears our prayers and we know Mary will continue to heal more each day.We love you guys,
Dave ,Carri and family

alan&becky said...

Scott,
We were happy to hear of Mary's progress. She is doing so well. We know that this is a difficult journey but keep praying and have faith---we know she is on the road to a full recovery. How can she not be when she has so many people in her corner cheering her on. Please let us know if you need anything, or if we can do anything to help the kids out. Know we are thinking of you. All of our love.
The Hartleys

Chuck said...

Hey Scott. Thanks for keeping all of us up to date. Our prayers are with you, keep the faith, it sounds like things are progressing towards her recovery. Your love for Mary shines thru and gives all of us inspiration in our own lives. Look forward to seeing both of you when you get home. All the best to Mary, you and the families. God Bless.
Chuck and Debbie hageman

cousin anne said...

Hello Scott & Mary,
I wrote to you the other day, but don't think you got it. I'm going to figure this thing out! I have a lot of prayer partners praying for your family! I think of my cousin everyday! Tell her we all love her. Thank you for putting this site together, it really helps us to stay in touch. Scott, I know your taking such good care of Mary, but don't forget about yourself!

Love, cousin anne:)

Sue said...

Scott, it is so wonderful to get the update each and every day from you on Mary's progress. Each morning I have a prayer for Mary that she has a good day with much more progess then the day before. Each night a prayer that Mary and the family has a peacful rest at the end of what I am sure is a trying day. I know when my mother was in Barnes not to long ago fighting cancer and was healed it really meant alot to comunicate thru emails and all the prayers going out from everyone and I think this Blog is just wonderful for all who care and love Mary and for you as well to see the great progress in Gods hands as he heals. It is not easy for the care giver as well as the patient. Stay strong with Gods Love and Healing and I will keep praying as well for your peace. Your love really shines thur just like Marys. Thanks again for the updates. Co worker and Friend Sue Kelle <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <>< <><

Burt/Jill Shackleton said...

I will visit Grandma Elsie in the morning and I am sure she will talk about Mary. She loves all of her grandchildren so much. Tell Mary that we are proud of her strength and that we think of her often.
Love,
Jill

Otte. said...

Unbelievable, you guys have 1079 views in this thing in such a short time. That's just testament to how many people truly care for you and your family. It is really inspiring.

Aunt Faye said...

Thank you Scott for updating this site daily, it's a great way to hear about Mary's progress. She is on prayers lists at church & I pray for her recovery & for your families strength. God is our source of compassion & comfort, may He give you peace & healing for Mary.
Love, Aunt Faye